Encourage not Discourage

Human mind has the propensity to focus towards negativity rather positivity.Our words really affect people's mind, body, and soul.Whenever we meet with people it could be our friends,peers, and relatives.It's easy to find fault in others while it's is a herculean task to identify positivity in others because to do that first of all, we have to be like that.It does not take even a single second to say that you are not good at studies, you are useless, you are characterless,you don't have certain attributes and what not, the list is endless Many children and students always live their life full of miseries.All bad words said by society to them gets deeply imprinted on their mind.Gradually their self-image becomes quite darker and they get trapped in vicious cycle of inferiority complex.They try to find some solace.They start liking aloofness and loving loneliness.Sometimes it turns into clinical depression.To them outside world is like a prison in which they are so afraid to talk with people, peers, and even their own parents.They become so fearful that they don't feel free to share own ideas, thoughts, and opinion.Consequently, it becomes quite difficult to find a place and even a person with whom they can share their own problem.It's like a dark secret which they don't want reveal it to anyone.Therefore let's choose to encourage not to discourage.Our word has power to change lives of others and the world.Even we can't do bigger things at least we can speak well, we can give genuine feedback and compliments to them because our words really matters.